Since I've worried about this all day, I decided to look up verses in the Bible about honesty. Here is one I found that has always "spoken" to me:
"Do not let kindness and truth leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. So you will find favor and good repute in the sight of God and man."Proverbs 3:3-4
I gave up a long time ago on trying to "control" Gil's honesty (or maybe I should say I have been trying to direct his conscience). I worked and worked to "make" him be honest with me, until I finally realized I can't control him. I can't "make" him do anything. God will hopefully lead Gil to a place where he feels he can be completely honest with me. I have to be truthful myself (bind truth around my neck) and hope that someone who truly loves me will base their relationship with me on truth. Thank you for your prayers in advance:)!!